just being nosie realy
so what atrakes you to someone?

for me its confidens in themself
                                                                                                                                                                             

Nice Eyes
                                                                                                                                                                             

Hehe a very subjective one that one Kay, loads of things.

I'd go with the "Weird Science" approach, and hope what comes out is Kelly leBrock                                                                                                                                                                               

Something that's unfortunatly difficult to gauge in somebody you've only recently met, if thats what your asking, but basically a willingness to accept a person for what they are and no desire to mould them into their 'fantasy' partner.   Perhaps giving away here why my last relationship didn't work out but hey, I'm not bitter!                                                                                                                                                                             

Alive and breathing is a good start.                                                                                                                                                                             

now your just being fussy vinnie, I've known  people who would settle for 'still warm'                                                                                                                                                                             

  Vinnie where've you been? So I'm nosey, so humour me lol                                                                                                                                                                                 

Mmmm  great topic/post Kaycat   Now I will have to think of my answer, will get back to you on this one                                                                                                                                                                                                 

A grin and a sense of humour                                                                                                                                                                             

Aah, but there's the thing C, nothing's worse than a girl going cool on you.

I have my standards, granted they're not particularly high, but they're standards all the same.

Oi've been mostly lurking Sandi, not much beats a good lurk when you're in the mood for it.                                                                                                                                                                             

now theres a question.... I would say if they right for you, you will find out very quickly..no need to look cause whatever it is just shines out at you....it makes u happier than you could imagine.... What it is?  I really dunnoo! but its magic all the same!                                                                                                                                                                             

Oooh, kay. That's a tricky one. Really can't think of just one answer !!! With some blokes its been physique...ice-skaters buttocks etc !! With others its been a certain "twinkle" in those eyes !! Again, it's been a certain aura of calm and at one with the world. The list goes on!!! Humour, intelligence, ...everyone's different but special in so many ways. 
Hmmmmm...is this where I've been going wrong ??!!                                                                                                                                                                              

never been into looks ! 4 me its humour 1st                                                                                                                                                                               

Don't fancy my chances, then                                                                                                                                                                             

I personally don't look for anything, if the spark is there when you meet a person, you just kind of go with it and see where it goes. if a person has a 'type' that he or she goes for and it doesn't work out, is that type wrong for them?? i think better not to had e a type and just leave yourself open to all possibilities. Keep your life exciting, go with what ever comes into your head!

The person for who they are for me. Oh and a pulse.....                                                                                                                                                                             

The really interesting thing about this question is the paradox between what we are hard wired to look for (differs for genders) what we prefer (from our experience) and what the magic marketeers will have us believe is the ideal person.   For me I just know, intuitively without any pattern who and what I like. I am always surprised by how little looks actually come into that equation. They do, but they fade into insignificance, compared to say trust and loyalty both of which take time to surface.                                                                                                                                                                             

Chemistry and way of life methinks.  I'm a biker and a rocker so would need to fit into that type of lifestyle.

I upset a few when I've said that I'll take a bike over a woman any day

Why ?

Because it never sayz no or lets me down
                                                                                                                                                                             

What do you find attractive in a possible partner?   Possible partner???....Not being married already is a start I guess                                                                                                                                                                               

Nice eyes and a good sense of humour, the things that catch my eye are, tall, tatts, piercings and dress/mohican/shaved head......saying that not a single one of my exes has ever looked like this