Only taken 3yrs , as of 22/02/2010 my divorce became absolute and final .

So there we have it folks fastjock is no longer married to bikerlind

And so begins a new chapter in my life
                                                                                                                                                                             

good luck to both parties, been there...not nice...                                                                                                                                                                              

second that  best to try keep things civil especially if u have kids good luck                                                                                                                                                                               

yes we have managed to do that, its not all plain sailing but you have to put the muggles first if there are any !!!!                                                                                                                                                                              

have kept things civil for over 3 n a half yrs , still good friends by all accounts , all 5 kids been ok with it all too                                                                                                                                                                              

well done buddy, met you at the URE...top bloke                                                                                                                                                                               

cheers Ian , cool tatt by the way
                                                                                                                                                                             

cheers buddy                                                                                                                                                                              

Congrats to you and Lind, Dugald.  I know you've stayed mates.  But its allas good to get it finalised eh?    xx                                                                                                                                                                             

glad to hear u have stayed freinds, i will be applyin for my 2nd divorse in 3 yrs!!!!!                                                                                                                                                                             

    How sad. All the best for the future to you both.                                                                                                                                                                              

life starts again fastjock ,best thing thing i did never look back                                                                                                                                                                             

Some things happen for a reason - glad you two have stayed friends x                                                                                                                                                                             

Aaaawwww I must say, I think it's very brave, open and honest of you to post this and always so very sad when something that once was very special ends too!!  Been there, done that and it's never easy but all I can say is the very best to you and Lind, great you've stayed friends and the kids are ok with it too.  Better for them to have two happy parents living apart then two unhappy ones living together. The very best wishes to you all for the future, you can all look forward now, move on and enjoy life again.  I've found there is life after divorce, maybe not what you planned or expected but often it's much better with many surprises to look foward to and adventures to have.  TC, dont look back and we'll no doubt meet at a BM event or rideout during the summer xx

Just to say been there too mate.  babyharley has said it all very well, so not much to add.  Just never regret the things that once made you happy.                                                                                                                                                                             

I agree with everything thats been said,fortunetly no little ones invovled in mine but it took its toll   Plus side ..I wouldn't have joined BM if it wasn't for mine and met sooo many good friends and one in particular...I'm so lucky                                                                                                                                                                             

I'm glad everybody is getting over what can be such an awfull time. My second divorce came through in August, and I'm only just getting back on my feet. The marital home is almost sold so I'll get my very small share of the proceeds and start again on the housing ladder.
I've met a few people off the site at the night out in brum in December, and hope to see alot more at the 'excuse for a party' and MCN live in April.
Note for anybody going through the hell of divorce at the moment, chin up it only gets better. It has for me
                                                                                                                                                                             

I cant get my divorce for another 3 years yet but when I do I hope it will all be sorted quickly, but my marriage is only a piece of paper to me nothing else, and like so many others on here if i hadnt of split up i wouldnt of found BM and met the peeps that I have. I hope to meet many more of you in this coming year.

huh lets not even go there shall we divorce seams such a long way away dont it lol                                                                                                                                                                              

Drobes hang in there girl, I'm sure the time will fly by.