do you think that if your with someone and you meet another person but are to chicken shit to be honest that its ok to test new waters first before jumping in???? me i think it stinks what do you think???                                                                                                                                                                              

no it stinks as you quite rightly say....its called keeping your options open and its a cowards way out. If you want to be with someone then you wouldn't be always on the lookout for something better!                                                                                                                                                                             

I've bin on the lookout for 30+ years, and I've yet to find anything better than the one I've got                                                                                                                                                                                  

Has happened TO me a few times in the past, I am at the point now where I don't feel able to trust as freely as previously.                                                                                                                                                                             

Nice to see some gods exist on Biker Match wow!!! I'm REALLY impressed.
...or is it Jeremy Kyle in disguise
                                                                                                                                                                             

Harmless flirting, a bit of "window shopping",. Human nature we do it without thinking sometimes.......but testing the water. That is out of order. Honesty and trust are key elements. You cant test the waters without breaking both.                                                                                                                                                                             

Interesting question my thoughts personally are not polite enough to be aired online.

However suffice to say testing the waters by sleeping around is totally unacceptable. It is a total betrayal and is a form of cruelty as far as i am concerned.

The person who cheats is a lowlife s@@mbag and deserves to be hung out to dry by their bits.

As i am being reminded constantly atm "you reap what you sow" and "what goes around comes around".

 my thoughts exactly pmsl  
"THE GRASS IS ALWAYS GREENER"  NOT!!!!
 ITS LIKE OOOH HE LOOKS NICER THAN MY BLOKE SO I WILL GO SHAG HIM IF HES ANY GOOD THEN IM OFF IF NOT I WILL STAY PUT TILL SUMMAT BETTER COMES ALONG!! I KNOW OF PEOPLE WHO SHALL REMAIN UN NAMED THAT ARE THAT GUTLESS IN THAT WAY AND HURT PEOPLE BADLY!!  MAKES ME ANGRY!! AND THEN THEY SWAN AROUND LIKE THEYVE DONE NOTHING WRONG AND ARE AN INNOCENT ANGEL PAAAAAH CHEATING SCUMBAGS!!!!!
SORRY JUST CAUGHT SUMMAT ON HERE AND DIDNT BELIEVE IT BUT SOME PEOPLE HAVE NO SHAME DO THEY ???

                                                                                                                                                                             

No! if you're in a relationship you should never test the water no matter what the temptation.
I worked away for 15 years, there was some harmless flirting here and there but no other contact, although try telling the wife nothing happened whilst away didn't seem to work........

jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeezus keep yer air on, fout we wasnt aloud ta shout. this is the tackiest forum topic EVER.                                                                                                                                                                              

 well stay off my feckin topics then if yah dont like em!!! i was asking an opinion on certain peoples behaviour if you dont like it well the doors that way ok!!!!!                                                                                                                                                                             

ouch! lol do we read between the lines on that one then :(                                                                                                                                                                             

Please remember that we are all entitled to an opinion and it may vary from other peoples, resulting in debate and sometimes conflicting ideas.  This does not mean a free for all slanging match.    If you find that the subject matter does not interest you in anyway shape or form then move along to a different topic, there is no need to post defamatory comments just for the sake of it.   As my Mother once said, if you have nothing nice or constructive to say suck a lemon instead :)                                                                                                                                                                             

 thanx jackie i agree completly                                                                                                                                                                              

You see the problem with your er...COMMAND is that I believe in freedom of speech ya see.
HAPPY TALKING TALKING, HAPPY TALK, TALK ABOUT THINGS YOU LIKE TO ...
                                                                                                                                                                             

Anyway, reading moany, bitter stuff is now boring me...zzzzzzz love you loads hahahaha xxxxxxxx                                                                                                                                                                             

im with zzr on this one name and sham hun i would
freedom of speech yep we all have it  and we get your point  how many times u cheated  then ??? only asking
pulling faces behind   peeps back ant nice ever im told 

                                                                                                                                                                             

 like ive said "whats ordinary" if you dont like what i post stay the f**k of my threads!!! i dont know you and dont like your attitude.we on here are like a big family and we know we can post stuff and if they dont like it they dont comment!! grow up and get a feckin life!!! and stay off my threads!!!!                                                                                                                                                                             

 ps: sorry to the admin guys but ive got one nerve left and shes really getting on it now!!! how old is she 5yrs pmsl                                                                                                                                                                             

Whats ordinary. ...if you're bored with this thread why are you reading it let alone commenting......I had assumed that you were in some way involved in the first comment...but as you dont actually appear to be im left wondering ( as im sure others are) if you are just a nasty wee woman with nothing better to do than diss someone else's pain.