Thanks boody,    allways used , how to stop the cycle is what i need to learn, needed the hugz , thanks , xx                                                                                                                                                                             

Its ace, id rather have a garage full of bikes and pay for sex, nowt like a rubber nurse.                                                                                                                                                                              

If only there was an "off" switch to take it all away. Perhaps then I wouldn't be on here at a stupid hour of the morning in order to avoid the dreams                                                                                                                                                                             

I'm with act daft lol, do you reckon we could get a line from the Doctor and claim it back pmsl                                                                                                                                                                             

'rubber nurse' aaaahhh Johnnytb, now I understand the facination you have with rubber bands/ballons lol                                                                                                                                                                              

Yup it does hurt big time. I got dumped at Christmas and it was thee most painful thing. Not nice at all but with time and if you keep fighting it gets better.                                                                                                                                                                             

It's never a nice experience being dumped but generally, they've done you a favour in the long run. Might take a while to see it like that though.   Onwards and upwards.                                                                                                                                                                              

Go to pub in a sexy dress and smile... it worked for me...........or did i dream it.                                                                                                                                                                             

Ah at the time it always seems worse, but why the hell would you want to hold on to someone who doesn't want to be with you....its only after the pain goes away that you can actually see a failed relationship for what it was...flawed ...... always on both sides, you just haven't been pushing the right buttons for each other .....   ....so dust down look forward learn from it and move on....... that super model may be around the next corner ( fickle its called lol)    part on good terms (karma) if possible, send a birthday card, christmas card for old times sake and stay friends...its alot easier in the long run..   Don't spend your time in the past, thats what it is, The Past. Look forward, upwards and onwards....... the sun is always shining somewhere down the road..                                                                                                                                                                             

Jtb said ... Part on good terms ...

I could not agree more ... However I would not recommend a birthday or Xmas card if you didn't, if the friendship bridge has been burnt, sudden contact again could have the wrong effect. Causing them to think ulterior motives motives are at play :-)

Act ... You never cease to amaze me... But I bet you look dern good in a dress lmao

ha ha, actdaft in a dress eewwwwww not sue you have the legs to pull it off mate lol                                                                                                                                                                             

if someone falls out of love with you, I am almost certain there is little one can do to change that. Its best to be friends after that and move on otherwise you will be digging up a world of hurt. On the bright side, there is plenty of fish out there, approximately half of 6 billion

I was dumped 18 months ago, Almost over it now. Hardest part is getting back out there, but ya gotta force yourself.                                                                                                                                                                               

just feel like the minute I open my heart to somebody, its the signal to punch a hole in it, and its a vicious circle the more times I get hurt the less I trust.                                                                                                                                                                              

It never gets easier if you've put everything you have into the relationship........plenty more fish in the sea never helps but eventually one will come along and knock you off your feet and make you smile!!!!
                                                                                                                                                                             

Ain't that just the truth TLC...the minute we let our guard down...   (((HUGS))) to all, think we've all been there at some point.                                                                                                                                                                             

Yeah agree absolutely TLC & Karey....I don't like the way I've grown to be cynical & distrustful. I just didn't used to be like that but I guess that's what happens and we have to learn to be guarded, but it's such a shame                                                                                                                                                                             

Same as some of the above posts and i myself got dumped last xmas..Thankfull i have got some great hobbies so i do get out and meet people...   Takes time to get over stuff mind..                                                                                                                                                                             

you have to move on,   this is the advice i got;   first buy a plant, if it lives for a year, get a cat,  if it last a year get a dog, if it lives a year Then you are ready for a relationship.   im off to buy another plant                                                                                                                                                                              

Whats this being dumped????