Just a thought but how do you change your negatives in life into positives.   Reading through some of the posts on the forum so many of us have or have had a rough time at some stage in our life.   I personally use laughter a lot. Also  never look back just glance back and think to myself well if the past hadn't have happened I wouldn't have today or the mystery of tomorrow to look forward to. I have no regrets in my life, things happen for a reason and with each event I just think of it as a stepping stone to making me the stronger person I am becoming.   Life is a long twisty road and I know I still have a lot of corners to go around before I reach my destiny but I know I will still be smiling when I get there.                                                                                                                                                                             

If last November hadn't happened I wouldn't be becoming the person I am.  Its easy to look on the negatives and I have been guilty of that a lot this year.  However my positives for this year are   an opportunity to find 'me' Moving from Brough (I was never happy there) Moving back to my roots (Hull) Being happy because my kids are ! Extracting people that dont care or matter in my life Fab friends, I am rich in that sense! Top family, my mum is my brick ! Strength of character Freedom to do as I wish PMA - Positive Mental Attitude making new friends on here starting two new courses   yes its been a good year!   Our life has been ripped apart but there are still positives and more besides!  We are happy, healthy, and raring to get on with living, so bring it on !!                                                                                                                                                                             

Totally agree, and well done Nutkin... my own list would be very similar to yours hun!   I have learnt that life should always be about accepting the past and looking forward to the future ahead... we are all responsible for our own actions, and their consequences, so as long as we can do what is right for ourselves and our loved ones, and limit the damage to others as we go, then we can't go far wrong...   "An' it harm none, do what thou will"                                                                                                                                                                             

Well done Nutkin & I agree with you & Wiccan1! Being positive & finding the silver lining to any situation is always my attitude....there's always one there..if you look hard enough!! As a light example...my partner dropped my bike (my baby!) getting it out of a van on a ramp...as it hit the floor and I heard the crunch  it didn't sound good! My screen was in bits and the fairing a little damaged...he waited for the explosion  and I took a deep breath & asked if HE was ok..lol I then calmly went indoors and went online and ordered the new silver iridium screen i'd been coveting for months and couldn't justify buying cos the black one was ok...a literal silver lining lol                                                                                                                                                                              

Just being alive is a positive Sex,beer & money are big helps too                                                                                                                                                                              

i like to remember what goes around comes around, its kept me looking on the brighter side and nutkin has summed it up nicely but oggys made me laugh!!!! (just not beer BRANDY) lmao                                                                                                                                                                             

Oggy i agree...lol                                                                                                                                                                             

havin a fab circle of friends                                                                                                                                                                               

  I hate positivity, it does me swede in     I aint got 'sex, beer or money'?  Now what?     ROFLMHO                                                                                                                                                                                  

u got ur mates on bm kwak                                                                                                                                                                               

Kwak, sex and money what’s that?  pmsl   RC, friends and beer now that I do have                                                                                                                                                                              

yep ur doomed dragon u got me as a bezzie mate lol                                                                                                                                                                                

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