seconded :-)
I also look at people and their attitudes, afterall, thats what they want to show to the world - I never judge a book by its cover is what I'm attempting to say, but their actions speak louder than words, so after that, Im only human - I also accept that people can and do change.
I think its sad, everyones in such a rush nowadays, no time for anything other than A to B, and stuff whats in the way of their goal
Brilliant post Andy