Hi Sandy,
really sorry you feel it's quiet. It has been fairly quiet recently.
With regards to events, it IS coming soon I promise. Just gotta get my arse to Holland first. Life is a bit too hectic at the moment as I am emigrating. See here...http://www.bikermatch.co.uk/sites/bm/forum/posts.asp?to...amp;page=1
As for winks and messages. Some people are too tight to get their hands in their pockets to reply. They can wink for free but can't reply until they subscribe (Which is fair enough if I do say so myself). However... there is something special coming on Valentines Day, so watch this space and you may receive a load more replies!