oh get a room!
People tend to meet at our events and then swap details, it's the safest option.
Dan - I've had (on 3 occassions) members contacting me to ask me to fix their "stalker" problems because they gave out their details too soon. One person started seeing someone who was married, but the person didn't advertise on their profile they were married.... then when the husband found out, there were death threats flying around the place and everything. That was the last straw really, I don't want any legal action being taken against me.
So what I say now - is use the site to arrange events, meet up (preferably at a group event), then exchange contact details IF YOU TRUST the person. And always understand that I take no responsibility if you end up needing to change your phone number, email address, etc because you're being stalked by a psycho