not all relationships go wrong i say that despite eveyperson i know has been divorced orsummit else wrong has happened!! it happens to men n women like croc says  but honestly i cant b naffed to try no more it aint worth the risk i am the bitch i will stay the bitch n men remain at my disposel !!

soz thats a bit harsh!!! ill b  gentle lmao                                                                                                                                                                             

nah say what u think betty boop lol                                                                                                                                                                             

i do i always do lol not that it gets me anywhere lol                                                                                                                                                                             

awwww croc feel for ya it must be very difficult  its a bummer when the kids get cught up in everything.                                                                                                                                                                               

big hug for u croc. xxxx                                                                                                                                                                             

thankyou :) right back at you all :)                                                                                                                                                                             

continuing on from the life begins at 40 discussion!!! - all I can say is some of us late starters - I waited for it to start and it all stopped, went downhill and it started alright - but back to square one right from the beginning lol!!!! Now at the grand old age of 50 (ssssshhhhh sounds so old, but really does depend on the person, inside and out - so no one believes Im 50 especially my partner lol!!!) it is finally starting and all going great for me...................so what, Im a late starter but better late than never.  We all do things differently so dont give up, you make your own luck too remember...................40, 50 whatever, it all depends on the PMA (positive mental attitude- not PMT lol!!!)physical and mental condition!!!!! Most ppl think Im mid to late 30's so I must be doing something right uh lol?? Sandy x                                                                                                                                                                             

well im 36 goin on 16 lmao                                                                                                                                                                             

most peeps think in  my late 20s dont know if thast cuz i look gud or act younger lol                                                                                                                                                                             

well its how you feel, look and act  (and who's feeling ya too I guess lol!!!) Ive been told Im mad as a hatter/off the wall, a real woman and a little kid too................omg what a combination for a wife of over 27 years (as was!!) and a mum of two grown "kids" too lol!!!  But, guess thats me, proud of it and not gonna change much now - in fact been told Im getting worse older I get (or is that better lol!!??)  Im not a typical 50 year old, never want to be or will be and it seems to work - most ppl think Im late 30's/early 40/s not a grey hair or wrinkle in sight and never stop laughing and having fun....................guess I got something right after all tho!!! Tc all and stay young Sandy xx