quotes Wheelbarrow - The way my wife looked at it when the kids were small was that if she had an off, then who would look after the kids etc.
I was the same as your wife WB, worried about my kids, then when he cleared off with a friend 4 years ago, I thought there's no way we will come off at the same time now, so pillied to my hearts content....
btw - there's not a hint of pink on my leathers/lid, there's a lime green squirrel, but that's to be expected !