old gixer boy,    only time will take away those  feelings.  I think most of the people on this site have been there at sometime or another.    This time last year I split for someone  I loved deeply, he just turned around and said he didn’t love me any more after 7 years,      My world fell apart and I had rebuild a new life.  It does not happen over night,    I am still not ready for a relationship a year later,  but I am enjoying being single,  going places, meeting new people,  and just finding myself again…  All I can say is take one day at time,  and look forward…     X                                                                                                                                                                                

......and they say bikers are all leather,brew and brawdiness.Good words from many lovely people,with understanding and caring to boot!!!!                                                                                                                                                                                

Yeah... but thank fork for the leather, brew and bawdiness too! 

                                                                                                                                                                             

Stop!!! sorry guys and gals but i'm going to have to stop reading these dam forums.  after 23 yrs married it ended 3yrs ago and 2yrs ago I had a brief relationship(lasted 4 wks and i would have married her) but that was probably delayed rebound??been on my own now 2yrs with my faithful bike, could not have coped without it, and thought I was doing well till this thread started!!!!! see you all at the sun whatever the weather....craig                                                                                                                                                                             

You are doing great Craig,your living your life and being honest with yourself.....thats a helluva lot more than some people i know.True happiness comes from within buddy                                                                                                                                                                             

oops deleted my post by mistake, bikers and their supporters are the best people i know.   Craig, its posts like this that helped me sort my life out agen, cos without reading through other peoples experiences, I was beginning to think there was something wrong with me.. and that everthing was my fault.   But now i have the 'f**k it attitude, im living my life, and taking wotever comes my way, life is way to short to wallow in the past. And once u start having more positive thoughts about yourself, the more u start enjoy life again.  What better way to spend it then with the bikers?    I know what i'd rather be doing.                                                                                                                                                                                  

Ditto that Kaz      CW:Don't be cross you're feeling abit of turmoil now.Be proud you still have the ability to care.Wether you read the forum or not,it's still there,like all the crap and all the good times still to come                                                                                                                                                                              

^^^ I was beginning to think there was something wrong with me^^^   Eee, by 'eck, lass - I'm so sorry to av to be the one to tell ee, but...                                                                                                                                                                             

oi !!   tis ok.. i already know im different... thats why im meeeeeeeeee                                                                                                                                                                              

                                                                                                                                                                             

                                                                                                                                                                              

take the rough with the smooth after all it makes us the decent people we are, the ones that leave us behind have the problems not us                                                                                                                                                                             

You just have to give it time...                                                                                                                                                                              

just dust yourself off..and get on with it..been there a few times..life is very short                                                                                                                                                                             

“Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.” (Ian Philpot...no clue who the guy is but it makes sense)                                                                                                                                                                             

Hello
This has been a great thread to read - and shows what a fantastic caring bunch of people there is on here. I'm looking forward to meeting a few of you in Harrogate next weekend. It has shown me that maybe there is some light at the end of the tunnel!!!
                                                                                                                                                                             

  Even when there's light at the end of the tunnel with my luck I'll be the one paying the leccy bill                                                                                                                                                                              

well i have just got in from going down the snake pass and do you know what i was grinning all the way down i still feel like crap inside but heh heh i would like to thank all of you for your thoughts its good to know that at least some people care cheers steve

(((((((((((((((((( hugs ogb ))))))))))))))                                                                                                                                                                             

lol @ Kwak