Well, its great to know there are so many men to choose from, but where on earth are they??
Problem is, some have put a profile on here and stopped there! Don't become "active" members, so all I can say is:
Come on lads, and lasses for that matter, don't be shy, introduce yourself on the forums, have a laugh, join in the fun, and if you do want to meet people for friendship or romance, you're not going to do it keeping quiet!!!
Have a look on the events board, there will be something going off thats not a million miles away, so get on your bike, or in the car, on the train, and meet some of us, we don't bite... very hard!